I talked to Dawn's college roommate before I ever talked to Dawn; she told me I should get to know Dawn as someone with a similar attitude towards new destinations. Dawn has no hesitation in traveling or other adventures. After our first year of marriage, we both quit our jobs and traveled around the USA, Nogales to Quebec, Portland to Tampa, for the next three months. When moving from San Francisco Bay to Omaha for dental training, we included the World's Fair at Spokane on our route. During dental training years at Creighton, we included trips to Morelia & Zihuantanejo in Mexico and Oahu & Maui in Hawaii. Dawn encouraged me toward a dental career in the US military for the travel and variety it afforded. Our children were raised in South Carolina, Panama, Alabama, California, Germany, The Netherlands, and Virginia.
We continue to travel today. In the early years, our limitations were due to a limited budget & free time. Now that we are retired, we have plenty of free time and a more ample budget. Our health is not yet a limitation, but it is an increasing concern. Both of us have had health issues, but we are "good to go" at least until my next prostate biopsy. We realize that this will not always be true; thus, we want to take advantage of the 'sweet spot' that we currently enjoy.
That sweet spot is not just in enjoying travel, but also in staying active. Every day this summer, we are out on a forest trail on our mountain e-bikes. Dawn takes fitness classes and has fitness equipment (treadmill, reformer, rebounder) here at our home. Woodworking, specifically boat building, (lifting, cutting, trimming, sanding, clamping) is an active hobby for me. I take long walks in our gated forest community and try to include daily exercises at bedtime. Yardwork also contributes. Now, I have a used trailer to rehabilitate for use with the kayaks I built.
Not every trip is long and complicated; this past Spring we went to Florida, Omaha, and Washington, DC, on separate trips. But plans for a next trip are always in our thoughts. Earlier this year we took a 57-day trip touching three continents. This Fall, we had a 40-day trip to Turkiye with extensive intermediate stops. Planning continues for future trips to the Caribbean and Western Pacific.
Life should be a pleasurable journey, not a struggle to be endured. Years ago, after my Navy service in the Pacific, I came to the view that that journey should be an adventure. By 'adventure', I mean a process of discovery: learning about yourself, the world, and finding meaning in all of this. Travel is not the only approach, but it is a convenient avenue for this to take place. Travel forces you into unfamiliar situations where you need to consider your choices and capabilities in dealing with new environments. A physician friend tells us that it helps maintain mental alertness, ward off dementia.
All this will end some day; we know not when. For now, it is enough to fully live each day and appreciate that we can do so.